♥Monday, February 13, 2006
Tomorrow is VAlentine's Day.. Couples who just got together, i wish them: work hard, continue to love each other, work out the differences and compromise.Couples who have been together i wish them: great job, I really wonder how u guys stick together for so long, but anyway happy for u guys...Couples who wish to be together but can't get together i wish them : arh.. too bad, but again I wish such couples all the best, and the day to be together will come true.As for individuals with no partner. Yeah lets pop open red wine and whatever liquor, CHEERS, THATS THE BEST CHOICE. haha ..Just joking. But to these people I wish you guys all the best, and may you find your real partner.OKay enough of wishes. So here comes the subject I wanna discuss.What is the best age gap between couples?Hmm.. Lets draw out 2 extremes. First case : Girl older den guy by 10 years, 20 years or more.Hmm I wonder who will this work? Of course if you are really in love, you will not really bother about the financial differences. Like if the girl is richer den the guy a lot, cos of her working experience, how will the younger guy feel like? Imagine if the girl is very much smarter and authorative? Girl : COMPLETE THE HOUSEWORKSCOOK>if left undone out of the room..? huh.. poor guy.. how is he gonna survive being the mouse in the house? OR what if the girl is very much older, mature? Guy: haha, what a funny comment from the President, do u really think he can change the way we citizen think? nah no way. Girl: looking at him feeling really disappointed with his comments, yeah if u think thats funny, i think u are out of your mind, can you imagine how great our president is, look at the prices of whatever stocks or whatever.. blah blah blah* i don't noe too* I think he is doing a great job in the polically and economically. HUH?? talk about such chimologly things to a young guy who probably haven even enter college? WILL THIS AGE GAP WORK OUT?
Second Case: Girl younger than guy by 10 years 20 years...
will This work? I think this is more common. Especially young pretty gir ls marrying old haggard man but have a HUGE WOO HA asserts.. haha.. This time girl may be 20 odd, and guy maybe 50? 60 ? 70? the girl will be waiting and waiting for the guy to just crawl his way to grave, so everyhting will be left to her.. LALALA, SHE WILL BE DAMN RICH!Who cares about whether there is love or not? Lets bring the sex story for this case. Guy wants to make love, how about the girl? if the girl is only 16 and guy 26. will the girl actually understands what making love is? yeah she probably will know what the procedures are like, but what about the feelings and thoughts? will she regret after that? I mean taking about virginity its just ONCE AND THAT ONCE.. golden night..
But for 2 of the cases, I feel as long as each party are mature enough to fit each other, everything will work out ba. Communication is the main thing. Both couples may be living in 2 differnt worlds, but i guess with correct communicataion and correct mindset, being together should not be a problem at all. be if who is younger or older, many things will just work with the right way of communication.
With a prevailing social situation making acts of creating and breaking couples so easily,it is hardly practical to expect a bond between couples to be potent.But I feel the society should not be blamed. It may be a piece of cake to get a divorce in married couples and to break up in couples, but the society should not be blamed, The law should not be blamed. Couples themselves should feel remorseful about it, about the irrational decisions. BUt den again if they just can't be together, maybe breaking up its a better choice too. OKay i am contradicting. haha
okay the end, don't fee like typing anymore, its kind of a long blog.
and ya today i just went for my enrolment in curtin. FREAKING HOT and walked from one end of the uni to the other end.. ARH.. so tired. and its really really hot..
I AM DATELESS tml.. lalala.. i have no hot dates, i don't need one too, cos its hot enough. haha
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