♥Saturday, March 18, 2006
A greek philosopher wrote: "Change is the essence of life; the only thing that remains unchanged is the law of change." (haha don't think i so smart k? I picked this up from some readings hehe)
That whole philosopher thingy sounds damn like a chimologist, but hey besides the usual hair splitting of philosophy what I wish to say is that things are constantly and continously changing all the time.
Sometimes I don't really understand why are there people out there who can't come to grips with things. It is damn easy to say things like " you are not who I am, you will not be able to come to the same degree of thought with me" Alright, this may be partially understandable to a certain extent. But I seriously don't understand why it is that when someone is already feeling very down and moody, why must he or she exacerbate the problem? Why must the subject emphasize more on the cause of his/her emotions?
It is never easy to master the art, I would really say the "art of forgetting and filtering". But at least there is a certain extend of effort in it to try to make oneself feel better and not try to whine and whine about this and that, saying sucidal things or making oneself suffer.
I can always be a listening ear to anyone who is sad and down what so ever. But I really don't think that he or she should make things worst like complaining about his or her sadness, torturing himself or herself. And to make things worst, he or she has to "borrow other live example" to make him/herself more pitiful causing people to feel sinful !! HUH??? I see no sense in such actions.
Back to my point of things changing always. So yes things around us are always changing. Whether its changing for the good or bad, we still have to go on living with life. CHANGE IS definately the essence of life. I can't say for sure that I have accepted some true facts but at least I can say in my "mostest clearest" mind that I don't have the thought that the only way to see the person I really miss most is to head for the same world. I don't go round crying and whining about what really happen and make myself all so pitiful. And lastly I don't torture myself. So why must you? Seriously, I may not be in your shoes or position, but I can understand how you feel, but I really do hope too that you can realise one day that there are still many people around caring and loving you. Its just changes in life. Life still moves on.
*these are my thoughts about people generally, no personal opinion on any particular person so no offence*
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