♥Saturday, April 29, 2006
I was reading through a number of blogs and suddenly stumbled upon a new blog. In almost most of the blogs I always read, there were some information about the blog. And being the ka-po me, I decided to give the blog a go. Opened the link, and to my utmost suprise.. OMG. Readers check it out first, and u will get it why I am OMG, and can't really continue writing. click here
Okay in simple, its a couple, gay couple who plucked up the courage to start a blogpage writing about their relationship. COOL? hmm I don't know. I know of a couple who I do read their blog frequently, it is also about their relationship. I have no idea why, but I seriously have a love for "couple blogs" I guess its because I adore the feeling of seeing people in bliss and the ups and downs in a relationship. But never did I expect myself to be hooked to this blog page for quite a while reading about the lifes of a gay relationship.
Till now I am still confused about my thoughts. I did read some comments too, and there are comments like "disgrace to mankind" but on the other hand there are also comments complimenting them.
Well, I shall describe my feelings. Initially when I opened the link and just did a fast browse at it by scrolling up and down the whole webbie. I could feel a creepy feeling creeping up my spine and goose bumps forming, causing me to feel even colder den it is now. *a bit exaggerating but its to give a clearer description* yeah so anyway thats how I felt. But I did not want to be biased to them neither, I did not want to just say "disgusting" and just close the window. I decided to read on, and as I read, I must really admit, it totally slipped my mind that they are gays, both males. I have no idea why, but as I read further, I sometimes got confuse that they are just like any other normal couples. Just like those "couple blogs" that I do read or have read before. OF course the sudden reminder of them being gays did gave me that spine raking feeling but it suddenly dawn on me that they sound just like any other normal couples.
From don't know when till when, I have always been very open minded about homosexuality but in my mind I still catagorized them as adnormal couples. In other words I can accept them but in some ways I still polarized them. I guess its normal for example: countries like thai or viet used to be known as 3rd world country but now its changed to developing countries and no longer called 3rd world country. BUt people still generalised them as the 3rd world country despite the fact they are developing and flourishing. So i can accept gays and lesbian, but I still compare them to "normal couples" just like i type above. Which is wrong, if I can accept them, I should not be comparing them with normal couples, cos I would have regarded them as normal.
I know its hard to understand, blame it on my writing. haha
So after reading their blog, and feeling that they are not much of a difference from a heterosexual relationship I realise my mistake and really really sincerly will want to change my attitude and stop polarising them from the heterosexual couples.
OKay I know this entry is really confusing and pointless. But its just my point of view and just wanted to share.
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